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I always hear “It’s okay not to be okay” and for a while I needed to hear that, but there was something else I needed to hear but didn’t realize until today. I was struggling with guilt about moving on and leaving the past behind and healing myself.
My therapist said this:
“It’s okay to be okay. It is okay to move on. It is okay to heal. It is okay to be happy. It is okay to be alright. You are not deserting anyone. You are not abandoning the people still in the dark place. You are taking care of yourself and there is NOTHING wrong with that.”
Internal Acceptance Movement:   (via lyrlouwho)

I just had a friend’s husband get passive-aggressively picked on on facebook because he drives a crown victoria—aka, an old police car. He bought it because those cars usually last like FOREVER, and he got a great deal on it. This family lives paycheck to paycheck.

…and he gets this so often, the insecurity has finally won and he’s looking for a way to trade the car. They can’t AFFORD it, but he’s so constantly humiliated for what he drives that he’s doing everything he can to trade it.

If this were a female, this wouldn’t happen. You wouldn’t make fun of her car. You tell me sexism doesn’t run both ways. I dare you.


Anonymous asked:

Surprise beautiful person! Once you get this, you must put it into at least 8 people’s asks (anonymously) who deserve it. If you break the chain, nothing bad will happen, but it is nice to know that someone thinks you’re beautiful inside and out. Help spread Anon love, not hate!
I’m sure this is INCREDIBLY old, but that doesn’t make it any less appreciated. Thank you so much!

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